{"id":3053,"date":"2010-10-23T12:03:39","date_gmt":"2010-10-23T17:03:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatnutritionist.com\/?p=3053"},"modified":"2010-10-23T14:19:00","modified_gmt":"2010-10-23T19:19:00","slug":"the-world-needs-sophia-sophia-needs-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fatnutritionist.com\/index.php\/the-world-needs-sophia-sophia-needs-you\/","title":{"rendered":"The world needs Sofia. Sofia needs you."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eating disorders piss me off. <\/p>\n<p>Eating disorders prey on some of the most marginalized members of society: girls, women, gay men, as well as people who suffer from depression, OCD, or illnesses that make eating a pain in the ass to begin with. They prey on people of all skin colours and ethnicities. They prey on people who&#8217;ve been tormented into believing that fat is a fate worse than death. And they <em>kill<\/em> people who don&#8217;t have the money to get better.<\/p>\n<p>I get riled up because I have a fifth-grader&#8217;s unreasonable expectation that the world should be fair. I understand that nature, in all her untamed glory, is the opposite of fair. But I persist in believing that the reason we went to all the trouble to build a civilization and a social contract and ethical systems and legal protections and declarations of human rights, and the reason we entered a grueling scientific cage-match against death and disease, is because we like the idea of fairness. And we will organize as a collective to fight for it, tooth and nail.<\/p>\n<p>So it pisses me off when the bastard diseases that prey on people who are already experiencing a lot of unfairness are pretty much given free reign: they&#8217;re not covered by insurance. They&#8217;re not researched as rigorously as other bastard diseases. They&#8217;re considered a figment of one&#8217;s imagination, an unfortunate sign of stubbornness. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m here to say that eating disorders are real, and that they kill people. In many cases, they kill people who are <em>already<\/em> at a disadvantage. Eating disorders are the deadliest of all mental illnesses. <\/p>\n<p>This is our fight, and we&#8217;re being picked off like flies.<\/p>\n<p>But we, by and large, treat eating disorders like they don&#8217;t matter. Like they don&#8217;t kill important, valued, and deeply loved human beings.<\/p>\n<p>Well, here&#8217;s what I think: Fuck. That. Shit.<\/p>\n<p>Meet Sofia:<\/p>\n<p><a href=http:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/sofias-eating-disorder-treatment-fund><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fatnutritionist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/sophia1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"sofia\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3058\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sofia is important. She is valued. She is deeply loved. The world will be a poorer place without her. <\/p>\n<p>She is engaged in a war whose outcome will determine whether she lives or dies. She&#8217;s been in heavy combat for the last four years, and she needs supplies, weapons, armour, relief forces. <\/p>\n<p>Last year, she won a strategic battle at a treatment facility called Monte Nido, and the end of the long war seemed to be in sight&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=http:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/sofias-eating-disorder-treatment-fund>It was as though all of these years I have been in a room with no doors or windows, and suddenly doors began to appear &#8211; and not only did they become visible, but I began to walk through them.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8230;until her crap insurance company fucked it all up.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=http:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/sofias-eating-disorder-treatment-fund>After 3 weeks at Monte Nido, UBH stopped paying for my treatment and I had to leave. Since then I have tried, genuinely tried, to get well &#8211; and I have been unable to.<\/p>\n<p>Monte Nido&#8217;s program director and all of my treating professionals were shocked&#8230;my medical state has declined significantly recently and it is clear that without appropriate treatment for my illness I will die&#8230;<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So we&#8217;re gonna have to do this the old-fashioned way.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/sofias-eating-disorder-treatment-fund\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fatnutritionist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/50408461.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"50408461\" width=\"421\" height=\"594\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3062\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sofia&#8217;s raising her own army, and <a href=http:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/sofias-eating-disorder-treatment-fund>she wants you.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sofia&#8217;s battle is <em>our<\/em> battle. In the fight for equality, don&#8217;t let them starve us out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eating disorders piss me off. Eating disorders prey on some of the most marginalized members of society: girls, women, gay men, as well as people who suffer from depression, OCD, or illnesses that make eating a pain in the ass to begin with. They prey on people of all skin colours and ethnicities. 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